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    Tannen states in her article: "Many women think, 'After all this time, you should know what I want without me telling you.' Many men think, “After all this time, we should be able to tell each other what we want” (435). Tannen says women feel that if they've been in a relationship long enough, men should know what they want without her saying it. Men say if you have something to say or I have something to say, we should be able to speak openly and express our feelings towards each other. This problem often arises in the reader-writer relationship. The problem arises when the author does not list all the details in an article and the reader is left to read between the lines or try to understand themselves when that is not their job. The writer feels like he has put in just enough detail so that the reader can read between the lines or understand what he is talking about. This poses a problem in the relationship because the reader wonders why, if he had something to say, why wouldn't he expand or put more detail into the story. This may make the reader not want to read anymore due to the lack of detail. This causes a communication problem between the reader and the writer. Other communication problems arise when readers cannot understand writers. Children have parents who have an accent but who don't speak with an accent. They speak like the people they grew up with speak. When children learn to speak, they learn about their same gender. They are influenced by the society in which they grew up (Tannen 440). When Tannen talks about kids talking about the environment they grew up in, it's about writers. When a writer writes, he types h...... middle of paper... without sending the wrong message unintentionally. I think for writers this is the hardest part of writing because they may have a certain problem to address in the story and the reader may either lose sight of the problem or not even recognize it at all. the idea and give it a different meaning than the writer originally intended. This is why it is especially important for writers to present their arguments clearly and precisely when it comes to writing stories or certain issues that they want others to discover and understand, because it is difficult for readers to understand if they are not receiving the right amount of information. information. However, there are certainly times when readers struggle to understand the points and sometimes the writer does not have control over what is taken and understood from the story..