Maybe it's because where I grew up, very few people wanted or could afford plastic surgery, so it wasn't usually a topic of conversation. Breast reductions were the most common procedure for girls at my high school, due to back problems. I wasn't aware of the embarrassment and self-esteem issues that many women faced due to the appearance of their lips. It's when people are faced with this kind of self-esteem crisis that I find it more difficult to subscribe to either the "self-love" argument or the "it's your body.” The Large Labia Project website not only educates individuals about how women with large labia feel and what they have to deal with, but it also promotes the idea of ​​self-love. Many women on the website were only embarrassed after someone else made a comment about the appearance of their lips, not before, which affected their relationships with their bodies and their intimate partners . Even though part of me wants to tell them to love their bodies and not listen to these people, I don't have to live with the embarrassment and embarrassment they feel. Thinking about how I would feel in their situation, I lean towards the other argument, it's their body and if this operation could help them to have confidence in themselves, to have better self-esteem and to enjoy sex more , who am I to tell them not to do it? do it? As long as