To be in love simply means to be human. You can't help but fall in love several times in your life and I don't expect you to not think that love won't last and it won't hurt. Just know that if it hurts and it ends and you fall “into the most ordinary ashes” (32), get up and don't give up on love. Everyone has someone that's theirs and it just wasn't yours and that's perfectly fine, but don't give up on something that's so special in life. Love is “gold” and we all deserve to feel the gold that comes to us