Talk Positively About YourselfTell a great story about yourself. Make people like you by painting yourself in a fun and positive light. It is a well-known fact that the more you love yourself, the more people will love you, while the more you hate yourself, the more people will find something wrong with you like you do with yourself. When you talk, find things to be grateful for. Focus on the abundance you have in your life. Don't hide your failures, but let people know that you learned and grew from them. Let people see how proud you are of yourself and what potential you have in life. But don't brag about yourself! Don't try to make yourself look perfect. You are not. They know it and you know it, so don't pretend you are. Speak about yourself in a positive but humble tone.3. Listen more than you talk Nobody likes someone who talks about themselves all the time. I had a friend who would call me, talk about herself for fifteen minutes, then end the conversation without asking me any questions about myself. I loved her less and less every time she called me. She loved me very much,