I am an INFJ. I have introverted intuition with extroverted feeling. I have a calm exterior but I am a protector of those around me. I am deeply concerned about my relationships on an individual level. I greatly enjoy getting to know people individually. I carry this passion into my close relationships. An important relationship is with my boyfriend, Adam. As an INFJ, I prefer everything to be orderly and systematic while it is more relaxed and casual. I know I irritate him when I constantly define and re-prioritize my life. Like many other INFJs, I have a strange view of people and situations. I get “feelings” about things and understand them intuitively. Sometimes it can be a little scary for others. Adam tends to express his feelings and thoughts much more clearly, whereas I protect my inner self and only share what I deem appropriate. He doesn't like that I hold back a part of myself and that I can be secretive. In part, I understand that in a relationship there must be open communication and a willingness to share. We...