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Essay / Wedding Traditions - 1485
Marriage is a ceremony or union recognized by law and shared by many cultures. The first example of a marriage ceremony took place between Adam and Eve, in biblical times. Evidence of this union can be found in the first testament where it says "Finally, this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh." » (Genesis chapter 1). This paved the way for the idea of two becoming one. This is also the context that gave rise to the importance of marriage before sexual intercourse. After that, most thought it was a sin to have sex if you weren't married. In earlier traditions, marriage was considered a marriage between a man and a woman, or some even recognize it as a marriage between multiple men and women. “Esau had three wives” – (Genesis 26:34 and 28:9). Today, marriage has evolved in many ways, as has the question of who is allowed to marry. Some cultures accept same-sex marriages or honor some form of legal union. This allows various couples to benefit from filing a joint tax return. Historically, marriage was essential to society because it established the basis of ownership and rights to land at the time of death as well as to protect bloodlines. In the United States, marriage has adapted to meet contemporary expectations. Cross-cultural marriages are also accepted and incorporate different religious beliefs and traditions. Biracial marriages are also accepted by the majority of American cultures. Wedding tradition is a globally known concept, in which every culture has its unique customs and traditions. Much of our origins come from many cultures. We practice a combination of various folk traditions and superstitions. For example, the expression “something old, something new, something borrowed and…… middle of paper……” for as long as I can remember. It will truly be one of the greatest achievements and memorable days of my life, if I get to experience it for myself. Overall, I view a wedding ceremony as a celebration between two people who love each other. This is something to take seriously. I realize, however, that there are instances beyond my tradition or opinions where this is acceptable or necessary. I am open and accepting of differences in the beliefs of other cultures. But I choose to cherish the idea of love, to view union as a choice and to feel that it is a privilege. Works Cited “Book of Genesis.” First Testament. ndCallaway, Nina. Plan your wedding ceremony. 2003. .Marriage traditions in the United States. Copyright 2004-2011. January 2011 .