When we fall apart in love, we sometimes don't know why we did it. There are tons of strange reasons why we fall in love and explanations for how and why we do it. First, it seems strange that it can take two to four minutes to know if you like someone, or if your feelings come then and there. You like someone mainly for three things: their body language, the way the person speaks, and what they say to you specifically. There are three stages of love. These stages are lust, attraction and attachment. Lust is of course driven by hormones and testosterone (Lee Ann Obringer). Of course, if someone looks sexually attractive, you may have feelings for them. Attraction happens when you have nothing else on your mind except this person (Lee Ann Obringer). Every morning you wake up, it's the first thing you think about (Lee Ann Obringer). Attachment is perhaps much more of an abyss of love. An early love, I should say. When you're attached, you don't just want a quick relationship, but one that lasts long and authentically. The one where you can have children, raise them together (Lee Ann Obringer) and watch them raise their children while you lie in your decrepit bed with wrinkles on 99.9% of your body, barely able to move and holding your hand while smiling. to the beautiful creatures your tree helped create, play together and enjoy life. Attachment is something that most couples want, but can't have. Oxytocin is a hormone released by women and men who reach orgasm. This can deepen the feelings between the two. The more sex a couple has, the deeper their feelings and bonding become (Lee Ann Obringer. Vasopressin is a hormone that is released after sex. Every time you have sex with...... middle of paper .....personality of a person, then sitting down to talk to him is when you can fall in love If you care precisely about appearance, then you can fall in love at first sight. It is unpredictable if you will last, especially not knowing what type of personality this person has. Love is an intense feeling of deep attraction. brain works at that time, if the person meets our needs, if we have sex with them, it is possible to fall in love, and if they entered your life and brightened it up while you. are going through a state of depression or stress The bottom line of this is that these are the main points that explain why people fall in love, how they fall in love, what hormones are discharged during relationships and sex, what happens in. our brain and of course what love is. Works CitedWhy We Fall in Love